7 IMPORTANT QUESTIONS TO ASK BEFORE GOING INTO A RELATIONSHIP

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Hello guys, how was the weekend? Good yeah? Today on the blog I’d be sharing 7 important questions to ask him before going into a relationship. Interested? Keep reading
There are important questions to ask before going into a relationship. You definitely do not want to start something you’d regret later, however this doesn’t guarantee no heart break but a satisfaction that you did your part by asking relevant questions and left nothing to chance.

7 IMPORTANT QUESTIONS TO ASK BEFORE GOING INTO A RELATIONSHIP
1.      Who is your best/close friend- Sometimes in a man’s life their close friend influence their decision big time so you need to know who he is hanging out with, if they are good for his mental health and yours as well. Like the saying goes show me your friends and I will tell you who you are. It’ imperative you know about this best friend.

2.      How is your relationship with your Mum –If he treats his mother like a queen best believe he is going to treat you like one, if he listens to his mum and respect her and her and her advises. He’d definitely respect you. If he has no regard/respect for his mother whatsoever, he will have no respect for anyone not even you. A Man who disrespects his mother, will disrespect you and anyone. They say charity begins at home.

3.      What do you want in the relationship – Knowing that you both are on the same page is really imperative as to knowing what you both want in the relationship makes it easier as to how to invest in the relationship, time wise, money wise, affections and all that. That way you both are on the mutual side.

4.      What are your goals for the future – Get deep, like where he’d want to settle down, his career path and all that important stuff.

5.      Why me? – Please ask why he chose you, what he sees in you and why you both are good together. What he see’s special in you. His answers to this type of question will give you the answer as to how he sees you.

6.      What’s your relationship with God – Religion is a big deal to many people and many people crave partners that are God fearing. If he’s a Christian ask him about his relationship with God and his faith. As it affects potential relationships and marriage.

7.      How do you express your love for your partner?
Thank for reading.

68 comments

  1. These are really valid questions to ask. Thank you for sharing :)

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  4. Important and valid questions to surely ask. Thanks for sharing.

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  5. I think number 3 is the most important. Just knowing what both of you want and expect will make things so much easier.

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  6. what a helpful post!!
    thanks for sharing!!

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  7. Perfect questions to ask, great post doll!
    Kisses, Paola.

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  11. I think this list would vary based on the person and type of relationship, but it's definitely important to talk about such issues before entering a relationship.

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    1. I totally understand, but it is also important to ask questions.

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  12. These are really great questions! Thank you for sharing
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  13. Question number 2 is very important. Great post.

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  14. These are really great questions, especially number 3-6. Thanks for sharing.

    Bernie, xx
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  16. very nice post. thanks for sharing ^^

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  17. I love this so much! these are such important questions to ask!
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  18. These are great great questions to ask! wonderful advice to new couples!

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  19. Really important questions to ask and great to see if you're on the same page, thanks for sharing!
    Have a lovely weekend :)
    Rosanna x
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  20. This is all so true. I'm single, but when getting into a relationship these questions are super important.

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  21. This is helpful and makes sense. I believe too that these will give a clearer understanding what kind of man he is provided that he doesn't lie with his answers. But then you will know eventually if he's lying or telling the truth anyway. Great post!

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    1. So true dear and thanks for giving your input.

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  22. These are really some selected ones to know the person better! Love the pics!
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  23. aww so cute!! love this post

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  25. Such a great post!
    xx- Nina

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  28. Great points. I kinda disagree with number 2 though. Sometimes people worship their moms and want u to do the same. When you don't, it becomes a problem and the respect you deserve is no longer at 100%. Have a great week ahead.

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    1. I totally understand where you are coming from, if it results to that then it's best to address it. Thanks for your input dear.

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  29. These are great questions to ask. Most men are influenced by their relationship with their mother, so it makes sense to ask about it. Our parents typically influence our views on relationships, so talking about those kind of things makes sense. Sometimes a person might not be close with their parents and sometimes for good reasons, but it is something worth talking about because it is a good way to learn more about our potential future partner. Similarly talking about what one considers love or about one's relationship with God can tell us a lot about a person.

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